7 Foods You Should NEVER Eat On A First Date!

7 Foods You Should NEVER Eat On A First Date!

There are foods you should never ever
order on a date. My name is Anna and I run an online finishing school called School Of Affluence. I teach women high society’s skills and
how to become a more elegant and refined version of yourself. So if you want to start your
transformation just visit www.SchoolOfAffluence.com So the number one thing
and this is definitely on my top two list. So here it goes. Do not eat raw onion, anything will raw onion
when you are on a date with a man. It is pretty self-explanatory. You have to avoid things like ceviche,
like guacamole. They even put raw onion in the salads,
which I absolutely dislike. What happens is that raw onions
have a very strong and particular smell. A smell that doesn’t really go away instantly,
even if you brush your teeth. This also goes along if you’re cooking with raw onion. If you, for instance, chopping a raw onion, you should always wear gloves because your fingers are going to smell for days. Well if we’re having a conversation about Mr. Onion,
let’s talk about his smelly relative too, which also is in my top two of no-no foods to eat. Actually, I never eat raw onion or at number two, we have garlic. Yes ladies, I do not eat raw garlic either because that’s another extremely smelly food
that you must avoid because this is a smell that is going
to really stick to you. It’s going to evaporate through your skin
for days after you eat garlic. I know that in some cultures,
you cook everything with garlic which is nothing that I’m trying to dismiss. Because I’m not saying your food is wrong or anything but cooked garlic is a little bit more okay
than raw garlic. If you can avoid any garlic,
you’re really going to stay safe. Because like I said, garlic is very very smelly
and it evaporates from your skin. It really sticks to your skin, it smells. I mean, this might not be the most elegant
conversation we’re having on this channel. But for instance, when your food is
digesting well after you have eaten Then you might come up a bubble in your throat, something that we call a burp, right? But it may be a small silent little one. But if you have eaten garlic,
that bubble in your throat ladies, are going to have a very unpleasant smell. So when you are in the company of a man,
you do not want to have any body odors, any smells coming from you. And that’s actually the issue with garlic and onion. I’m sorry to say it but if you want
to leave a good impression, you better think about what you eat. The number three might actually surprise some of you Because I would not advise you to eat salad
on your first date or whenever you’re trying to eat elegantly. For the simple reason, that salad is actually
almost a tricky food to eat. Depending how it is prepared,
depending how big the salad leaves are, it might be very hard to take a bite-sized piece and put it in your mouth
without everything just unfolding in the air and splashing dressing on you and so on. And the number-one rule with eating salad is that you are not allowed
to cut a salad with your knife. Salad is supposed to be eaten the way there. So oftentimes, salad is actually only eaten with fork. So you are going to be in a hard situation if like I said, the leaves are huge, there is plenty of dressing. How are you gonna put that a big piece of salad
into your mouth without making a total mess? So don’t take that risk because we don’t want you to be all stained and lose your elegance while you’re trying to leave a good impression. Number four, Foie gras. Why Foie gras? One of the things that I personally
think is absolutely inappropriate is to eat something that has been prepared
in a very very extremely cruel way. I know the meat industry today is horrible
and so is the dairy and egg industry as well. So I’m not not acknowledging those things
but I do really want to make a stance for Foie gras because I feel like
a lot of you are really not aware. And many times people go to sophisticated
restaurants and they order foie gras because it’s this kind of affluent dish
that you are so sophisticated if you eat it.; And they just want to impress other people
and for me, that’s just pure stupid. Because in reality, you’re supporting
horrible animal cruelty. When these poor ducks are
raised to be a force-fed you, you have no idea, like I’m not really gonna go that far. but I really want you to know that Foie gras is extremely animal cruel.
so don’t order foie gras, you will not be sophisticated,
you will just look uneducated. And today, everybody’s taking responsibility
for our planet, for being animal-friendly and the way we treat our planet. That is now the new level of being chic,
so make sure you are that educator person who is responsible with their actions. Number five, spaghetti Do you know how to eat spaghetti elegantly? And no, you’re not supposed to east
spaghetti with spoon and fork. That is wrong. Spaghetti is eaten with fork only
and there is a very particular trick to how you can make that work. But ladies, I can tell you one thing. Unless you are a pro at eating spaghetti,
unless you have been practicing this for years or you are Italian,
do not eat spaghetti. Because there is a big chance,
you’re going to make a big mess and the worst is when you are wearing a light-colored outfit. Maybe you’re wearing a white beautiful dress
and then you’re eating spaghetti with tomato sauce and you were twisting it
and you’re trying to eat it and splash tomato sauce on your white beautiful dress, horrible! And then your date feels almost ruined. So don’t take that risk, it’s not worth it. Spaghetti is truly more of an advanced food, so save it for when you are alone. Number six, fast food, the type of food that is often eaten with fingers
such as burger, nachos, club sandwich. These type of foods are first of all,
they’re not very elegant to eat. They are like I said, a little bit fast-food type of food. Can you imagine yourself,
a sophisticated woman, eating a burger? I’m not saying you are not allowed
to eat this type of foods. But I would say that this is the
type of food you would perhaps eat more in private, when you are with close
friends or family members, comfort food basically. You don’t order this type
of things in fine restaurants and especially not if you are there on the date. They are very messy to eat. You could eat a burger with cutlery
but it is going to be tricky. And your elbows are going to be up in the air and you will be having to use a very strong, probably steak knife
to be able to cut through those thick layers. Or for instance, nachos is something
that you cannot eat with utensils. You have to eat that with hands and with all the cheeses and sauces and guacamole and tomatoes
and this and that, good luck really, good luck! And then we have the famous club sandwich,
now how on earth are you supposed to eat that thing without
everything is just like sliding out to the side? It’s really really hard,
so save yourself a headache. Don’t order this type of food,
it’s just not worth it now. Now lastly, number seven I think we live in a society today
where a lot of people or maybe I would say more and more people are getting
sensitive stomachs, they get IBS and they get bloated for every single thing, regardless if it’s because of gluten or something else. This is unfortunate but I do want to spell it out that you are aware of when you go on dates
or when you know if for instance, you are going to be intimate with the man and so on,
that you don’t eat things that are hard to digest. I want you to think about
that you don’t eat these things when you are going on dates or maybe when
you’re going out to party and you’re wearing a beautiful tight dress. Eating things that are hard to digest and
that will really make you bloated, these things can be different
for different types of people. Though my list is not of course set in stone
but I know for sure there are many types of vegetables that can make you
feel very bloated especially if you’re not used to eating vegetables, like broccoli, cauliflower as an example. I remember once, I went to a raw vegan restaurant
for the first time many many years ago and I did not have a great experience after. Because my stomach was not prepared,
not ready for that type of high fiber food, so I really had to cancel my plans after. So you really have to take these things into account. Other things would be for instance,
if you are sensitive to bread or pasta or worst of all lentils and beans. I don’t know many people
who can process lentils and beans in a very good smooth way. Avoid anything like that. Maybe it’s not worth having lentils
and the same goes for any heavy food, anything that makes you feel
like you gained 5 kilos. It’s just not worth it. So save that for days when
you are more comfortable with a person or for casual days with your family or friends, not when you want to be elegant and not when you want to be on top of your game,
like us, elegant ladies always are. If you want to learn more about
these things and about transformation, make sure you are subscribed to my
Youtube channel and also ladies, make sure you visit www.SchoolOfAffluence.com where I teach more in-depth about all these topics. Now if you haven’t watched my video on
How To Eat Breakfast Elegantly, make sure you watch that one now
after this video because I’m planning to see you in that video!

100 thoughts on “7 Foods You Should NEVER Eat On A First Date!

  1. I knew I liked you, Anna! Then your comments re: foie gras confirmed it! I'd recommend your channel to anyone who wants to improve themselves.

  2. You don't smell as a vegan on the other hand if onions or not but the world is not vegan and thats the problem. Peace✌ Michèlle D.
    Readings&Music Youtube Channel💕🎤🌒

  3. If I went on a date with someone and they ordered foie gras or veal, there will not be a second date!
    And thank you so much for mentioning it!

  4. I agree with everything mentioned on the video. I also avoid foods with a lot of raw spices sprinkled, because they would stick to my teeth, and that's not an elegant look. 🙂 I find Asian restaurants safe, because in my culture, you cook almost everything with garlic and onions. Asian foods are usually not messy (it depends though), but you really need to be skilled with chopsticks, because in high-end restaurants (at least here) you will not be given regular utensils, and even if you are, I don't find it appropriate. What I like about Asian food is, it usually comes in small bites and dishes with rice+meat are easy to eat and not messy. Having said that, you need to know which asian foods are safe and which are not (I wouldn't go for sea-food), to make it work.

  5. I'm so glad you talk about animal cruelty in almost every video. I heard it the first time when you talked about fur coats and now in this video with fois gras. Thank you so much for being a well-educated woman and spreading your knowledge about these topics.

  6. Do not eat pasta like spaghetti!!! I made an accidental mess on my third date with my now boyfriend. Luckily, hes so laid back and funny! We laughed for a good ten minutes straight! But I can see how some affluent men would be turned off!


  7. I am not rich and i am in a very lovely relationship so i do not watch your videos for finding a rich man. But i appreciate your content and enjoy every video because even without being rich a woman can be classy 🤗🌞

  8. Here's another one: Sushi. You wouldn't think it makes you stink, but sushi smell will actually transform in your stomach and come up through your breath. It is absolutely disgusting.Test it out with one of your friends and see what I mean. Sushi is not good date food if you are hoping for a kiss afterwards!!!

  9. She is so cute the way she explains everything. I like her more and more with every video, even though I don't look for a affluent men as I have my love of my life already, I still enjoy her content, and I think we should bring back femininity and elegance back, rather then so popular casualty!

  10. Also ladies, raw onion, garlic, broccoli and cabbage are also foods that can make you bloated and …. we all know where that gas will come out from 😢😢😱

  11. Anna, before you even said it I knew Onions and Garlic would be the first two on the list. I cook with both, but learned years ago these should be avoided days before a date or event. As for Foie Gras, I agree 100 percent; it is beyond gauche! Liver of any kind is for the lack of a better word, gross! I have disliked it my entire life; the look of it, the smell 😬. I have family members who eat liver and it turns my stomach..

  12. Onions and garlic should be banned from foods full stop.
    Its such a clumsy boring uncreative way to cook.
    So many other more interesting options , ways to eat with refreshing herbs.
    Thanks for making a stand for the animals. Fois gras is despicable

  13. Anna love your channel some of these things I wish I knew a LONG TIME AGO. I use these tips and tricks for networking/corporate events and now the "let's workout together" has come up..in sporting events like golfing, gym classes do you have any feedback for how to be elegant at the gym and while participating in sporting events.. ie what to wear, should I workout or certain workouts at that time I can do looking sophisticated

  14. Any animal product is extremely cruel. Its not ok 2 order steak in my opinion either, or any sentient animal! Google factory farms.. its not just the beautiful ducks. And I love that u brought it up. I wish u had discussed it ALL further. U cant really say one thing is cruel and not mention ALL THE OTHERS. Also can u please mention the safest most elegant foods you would suggest then.

  15. Ok garlic is really good for your body. Improves your immune system. Practically everything is cooked with onion and garlic!

  16. If you are at a Very Nice ($$$) restaurant for your first date you could try: Starter – a Soup (Gaspacho) or Oysters, Entree – Grilled fish (Salmon or Bass) with a Risotto, and a Dessert (Sorbet or Cake), but remember that berries, such as strawberries, raspberries, blackberries have these tiny seeds that get stuck between your teeth and will spoil the rest of your evening unless you take a moment to floss…

  17. Some of your comments, I would never have thought are a problem. Onion and Garlic are obvious. I actually laughed out loud. Upping my game here too. I enjoy your perspective.

  18. I’ve enjoyed many videos, but this one is too over the top for me. I ultimately want to be with someone I can be myself with.

  19. Bravo for speaking up for animal cruelty. The cruelty imposed on these birds are horrific. Please definitely think about opting for cruelty free meals, makeup and fashion.

  20. Thank you for mentioning foie gras! I’ve always felt uncomfortable with the idea of it. When someone orders it now, they always strike me as a bit uneducated.

  21. I’m Italian, and yes, you are allowed to eat any type of spaghetti or noodle with a fork. And I do. It’s very elegant, neat and safe, though I’m more likely to stay away from red sauces on a date because of splatter. Another choice is to,order a penne or small pasta dish.

  22. When you’re Italian so you don’t have to worry about eating spaghetti, because you eat them since you first year of life 💁🏽‍♀️

  23. "What about the best course during dinner: DESSERT! <3 The amount of sugar in just one slice of vanilla buttercream cake is a delicious death wish for me! "

  24. "Ms.Bey can you make a video on how to come up with a signature (like a perfume, style or emblem/symbol)? I like the idea of being associated with a lion because of how powerful and courageous they are! <3 "

  25. I am vegan and enjoy a variety of raw foods, like fruit. Bloating from eating foods that are raw come from a lack of "heat" and a weakening of the stomach acid. Take ginger candies with you, take a couple after eating a raw, or cold, food and you will not have any bloating. You can also order a hot tea to go with your meal, this will help as well.

  26. My Latina self is screaming but who eats garlics?! Also eating beans is never a good idea for any dates in general unless you’re really used to eating beans.

  27. How true and still when I go to a restaurant if I order by myself I have to ask for no garlic and onion, etc and it sounds weird for ppl!! Do you ask directly ? thx

  28. What about soup? An issue similar the "spaghetti debacle" could happen more with soups, especially when you're nervous and your hands are shaking. Oh lord my head is spinning think of what could go wrong 😵

  29. I once ate a bugur with a guy, and guess what? A TOTAL MESS. Oh I still cringe when I remember 😤 It was my first time visiting that restaurant and they filled my burgur with sauce, like the bugur was swimming in sauce… Few minutes later, my clothes swam in sauce too 😂

  30. I absolutely agree with you… on everything. Many years ago I heard that Queen Elizabeth never eats garlic and onions for the reasons you stated. And she is correct. When you are with a new date or new people, NO, NO, NO!!!! No one ever had to tell me this. I love you for being animal conscience about the Goose liver. Thank you! I would never ever order that (I don't even order veal), even when I was young. I have such empathy towards animals, I can't even believe how we treat them, it is just so awful. I was a vegetarian for 13 years. I am not now, but I try to be careful with my diet. Also, I am 100% Italian and I never ordered spaghetti when I was dating, or tomato sauce on anything. Even though I am an expert, you just can''t take the chance of being in a beautiful light colored dress and have the sauce flick on you. It just happens. Beans are also a no no. My husband and I will not even eat anything like that the day before we are going out to the ballet or to the sympathy or anywhere where we have to sit in a crowd for any length of time. It just is not worth it. Burgers and tacos, I just don't each food like that in public, maybe burgers at home, once in a great while. You did forget one food, and that is corn on the cob. You can not believe how many times people in America eat that. I will not even eat that with family members around. I was at a backyard cookout a few weeks ago and they served corn on the cob, I just wouldn't take it. I will eat it at home, but that is all. And lastly, yes, salad is a nuisance because you are not suppose to cut the lettuce. However, now that I am married, when we both go out on our date nights we will cut the lettuce, there is no way either one of us is going to put a big piece of lettuce in our mouth. Otherwise, I will not order a salad if we are with a crowd of people. If I make salad at home, I make sure the pieces are bite size pieces. Thank you for stating the obvious. You give the best advise.

  31. Ana you are amazing!! You are extremely educated. I follow and have friends that are very educated regarding the world's problems and the cruelty behind so many industries. Thank you for speaking on this platform! 👏👏💚as much as everyone can people should be plantbased! To go vegan, it s the biggest movement now✨

  32. I am so happy that you addressed foie gras. I avoid ordering it at all costs but some airlines serve it anyway in business 🤷🏼‍♀️

  33. So what to eat? Risotto minus garlic? Doubt any restaurant would serve that. Any cruciferous vegetables such as brocolli will also cause smelly breath, asparagus too… even meat like steak isn't great for breath. Just veg like steamed potatoes and carrots seem safe …maybe a bit of cheese and fruit. 🙁

  34. I couldn't agree more for that inappropriate food. How about a video for food that you would recommend us to choose in an elegant dinner?

  35. Drink a yogurt or something dairy an hour before raw onion or garlic to prevent the smell. Eat papaya before meat or hard to digest foods too. Carry alka-seltzer for any other emergency. Sometimes we don’t get to chose what’s in the menu like in the case of Weddings so a couple of these will keep you safe!

  36. The more appropriate word is "studpidly" not stupid. It would be rude to call someone "stupid" while it is considered appropriate to point out their manner of behaving.

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